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At 40, I finally said out loud I'm a lesbian. It took me another three years to answer God's call because I thought my identity disqualified me. Not because I wasn't ready, but because I believed being a lesbian meant I had to choose between who I am and who God made me to be.

For years, I thought if I stayed single, never acknowledged it, I could outrun the truth. I spent over a year in therapy before I could even say the words out loud. I wrote my therapist a letter because speaking felt impossible.

The day I finally said it to myself, to her, to God, everything changed. I was free

I wrote Reclaiming Your Seat in the Kingdom because I don't want you to wait 43 years to accept your call or identity. Your identity is not a barrier between you and God. It never was. You already have a seat at the table.